Archive for May, 2008
Inner Dialog - The Craziness in Us All
May 27th, 2008When you pass someone on the street who is muttering unintelligibly to himself, you most likely take a moment to consider, how crazy that person must be. If you’re thinking about it though, you’re having your own conversation about it, just internally. This internal conversation that we all have is what is known [...]
Persuasion | Persuasion Artist
May 26th, 2008Persuasion Persuasion Artist
I didn’t even finish reading this great article over at Persuasion artiist before I decided that I had to post about it. If you’re at all interested in pickup, you won’t want to miss the topics discussed in this article. If you’re not interested in pickup, you still will probably [...]
The Curse of Self-Limiting Beliefs
May 24th, 2008In many ways, the beliefs we have define the people we are. Whether positive or negative they define how we interpret and react to each and every situation we experience. Usually it is easy to tell the difference between our positive and negative though, but one type of beliefs, self-limiting beliefs, can often fall into [...]
Social anxiety, dating, and the bar scene | Social anxiety disorder and everyday life
May 22nd, 2008While I was checking my subscriptions this afternoon, I found this slightly disturbing post. It really struck a chord with me because it contains alot of the thoughts that I used to have about myself. The author was stating that he was looking to go outside of ordinary dating methods because he [...]
10 Things You Should Do Before Going Out This Weekend
May 22nd, 2008With Memorial Day weekend just a few days away, I thought it would be a great time to put together a list some of the things you can do before going out to help reduce some of your social anxiety.
Take a shower or bath - You may already take showers before you go out to [...]
But I’m Shy
May 20th, 2008How many times have you heard someone say “I can’t because I’m shy.” or something similar? Personally, I have heard it a million times and there have been many times that that same phrase has come out of my own mouth. In reality this phrase is just a well accepted excuse that we use when [...]
Approach Anxiety » Blog Archive » What Kind of Guy Just Walks Up to a Woman and Says Hi?
May 20th, 2008Approach Anxiety » Blog Archive » What Kind of Guy Just Walks Up to a Woman and Says Hi?
As you may remember, I wrote a post a few days ago, "10 Tips for Approaching that Hot Girl" where I said "Just do it." Well , Eric over at ApproachAnxiety.com has written an article that expands [...]
10 Tips for Approaching That Hot Girl
May 18th, 2008Just do it - It doesn’t matter what the outcome is in the end, you will never know if you don’t try.
Approach quickly - Don’t give yourself the opportunity to talk yourself out of doing it
Be yourself - Don’t act differently than you normally would. If you do try to be something that you’re [...]
Learning to be more Social : My Goal
May 15th, 2008Right now I am at what will most likely be the longest part of my process of becoming more socially experienced. I am learning to communicate with people who’s interests are different from mine. For me this has always been a huge sticking point because, while I find the topics that most other [...]
Motivating Yourself for Change
May 13th, 2008When my wife of 3 years left me 2 years ago I was in for a real shock and a number of lessons in motivation. I had been pretty lucky most of my life, and I never really had to motivate myself to do anything. Everything I wasn’t motivated to do had been done for [...]
