Archive for January, 2009

The Secret to Thinking Positively

January 27th, 2009

Not so long ago, I found myself staring at articles not that unlike this one, reading that if I thought positively good things would happen to me.  At first I’d try to think positively, and realized that my thoughts would automatically return to negativity.  I figured, as you may, that I was just a negative [...]

The Importance of Incongruence

January 11th, 2009

A post that Not a Mean Girl wrote yesterday reminded me just how important congruency is when dealing with other.   Being congruent simply means that all of our communication, verbal and non-verbal match and tell the same story.   However incongruence usually indicates that something is wrong.  For instance you may have a frown on your [...]