Comments on: The Importance of Incongruence http://www.sociallydistressed.com/2009/01/the-importance-of-incongruence/ Your source for information about social anxieties and phobias Fri, 03 Feb 2012 21:37:10 +0000 hourly 1 By: Peter http://www.sociallydistressed.com/2009/01/the-importance-of-incongruence/comment-page-1/#comment-95 Peter Sun, 25 Jan 2009 04:39:36 +0000 http://www.sociallydistressed.com/2009/01/the-importance-of-incongruence/#comment-95 Hey Andy; (You don't have a contact address up, so I'm using this form) Good site. I just came to it randomly from stumbleupon. Have you heard of www.succeedsocially.com? Check it out if you haven't. You might get something out of its advice. Hey Andy;

(You don’t have a contact address up, so I’m using this form)

Good site. I just came to it randomly from stumbleupon.

Have you heard of http://www.succeedsocially.com? Check it out if you haven’t. You might get something out of its advice.

]]> By: Devyl http://www.sociallydistressed.com/2009/01/the-importance-of-incongruence/comment-page-1/#comment-94 Devyl Fri, 16 Jan 2009 03:37:04 +0000 http://www.sociallydistressed.com/2009/01/the-importance-of-incongruence/#comment-94 Excellent information, Andy. And, NAMG ROCKS!!! <abbr><em>Devyls last blog post..<a href="http://devylgyrl.com/2009/01/14/photo-snag-tag-14365/" rel="nofollow">Photo Snag Tag (#14/365)</a></abbr></em> Excellent information, Andy.

And, NAMG ROCKS!!!

Devyls last blog post..Photo Snag Tag (#14/365)

]]> By: Andy http://www.sociallydistressed.com/2009/01/the-importance-of-incongruence/comment-page-1/#comment-93 Andy Mon, 12 Jan 2009 17:47:00 +0000 http://www.sociallydistressed.com/2009/01/the-importance-of-incongruence/#comment-93 Thanks for the kind words guys. NotAMeanGirl, very true, although, you may want to try to not look at it as if one message is right and one is wrong. You'll see less resistance looking for compromise rather than acceptance of the message you interpret as being right. Thanks for the kind words guys.

NotAMeanGirl, very true, although, you may want to try to not look at it as if one message is right and one is wrong. You’ll see less resistance looking for compromise rather than acceptance of the message you interpret as being right.

]]> By: NotAMeanGirl http://www.sociallydistressed.com/2009/01/the-importance-of-incongruence/comment-page-1/#comment-92 NotAMeanGirl Sun, 11 Jan 2009 19:18:48 +0000 http://www.sociallydistressed.com/2009/01/the-importance-of-incongruence/#comment-92 Nicely said! Kids are especially adept at sending mixed messages with their non-verbal communication. They do it unknowingly and its VERY important to read those clues in order fully understand what you're being told. Often, the non-verbal clues tell the truth under the polite lies society says we must tell in order to be "normal" or "accepted". Kids, in particular, are very susceptible to falling into the "Everything is Rosey" trap. <abbr><em>NotAMeanGirls last blog post..<a href="http://notameangirl.com/2009/01/10/im-thinking-of-something-and-it-starts-with-the-letter-k/" rel="nofollow">I’m Thinking of Something and It Starts with the Letter “K”</a></abbr></em> Nicely said! Kids are especially adept at sending mixed messages with their non-verbal communication. They do it unknowingly and its VERY important to read those clues in order fully understand what you’re being told. Often, the non-verbal clues tell the truth under the polite lies society says we must tell in order to be “normal” or “accepted”. Kids, in particular, are very susceptible to falling into the “Everything is Rosey” trap.

NotAMeanGirls last blog post..I’m Thinking of Something and It Starts with the Letter “K”

]]> By: Fear and Parenting in Las Vegas http://www.sociallydistressed.com/2009/01/the-importance-of-incongruence/comment-page-1/#comment-91 Fear and Parenting in Las Vegas Sun, 11 Jan 2009 18:48:03 +0000 http://www.sociallydistressed.com/2009/01/the-importance-of-incongruence/#comment-91 Nicely and concisely put. I deal with this issue frequently in my profession and I'm continually amazed at how difficult it is to get clients to use verbal, non-verbal and behavioral cues to realize their messages aren't getting through. Those that do listen and match their message and delivery method to their audience are usually much more sucessful <abbr><em>Fear and Parenting in Las Vegass last blog post..<a href="http://fearandparenting.wordpress.com/2009/01/11/throw-momma-from-the-plane/" rel="nofollow">Throw Momma from the Plane</a></abbr></em> Nicely and concisely put. I deal with this issue frequently in my profession and I’m continually amazed at how difficult it is to get clients to use verbal, non-verbal and behavioral cues to realize their messages aren’t getting through. Those that do listen and match their message and delivery method to their audience are usually much more sucessful

Fear and Parenting in Las Vegass last blog post..Throw Momma from the Plane

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